Do YOU understand the meaning of secret?
The definition of SECRET :
"something that is or is kept secret, hidden, or concealed. or a reason or explanation not immediately or generally apparent."

when you promise someone not to say out a secret, would you even say out? no right. for me, i will not even say to someone who you care most. that is why i called it is a secret.
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Was talking to corrine and my 1st brother about this topic. and corrine tells me this
"God does runs our life, He plans for us everything. But He also let us choose whether we want to do according to His will. Is all about your willingness. But whatever it is, we will still ending up doing His will." and i somehow agree to this. Indeed, He plans our life for us and of course He has the reasons for everything that He plan. He moulds us through all the trials and problems in our life, if one has a smooth life, he will never know what is pain. In John 3:15-16 says "that everyone who believes in him may have eternal life . For GOd so loved the world that he gave his one and only So, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.", that is our blessing for sure. Everyone has different life, how can you said that God is biased towards them? He has his own reason why someone is pooor, whereas the other one is rich, but who knows, the someone who is born poor will be rich in the future or maybe he is happy with his life, cause he has less things to worry or maybe he will be the most famous person? no one knows except God. God definitely have greater plans for the someone. and God knows that each one of us has different gifts, someone who is very poor can be the one who plays violin wells and tour everywhere for his own concerts? so conclusion, He is definitely not biased towards anyone, is just what He plans for everyone.

After debating with my brother and talking with corrine about it, i then realised how weak my faith is and i admit that :(